Welcome to Sanctuary for Recovery

Donation Based Sober Coaching & Guidance
by Anita Ohanesian


 

My Story.

 

 

I know what it feels like to be lost in the darkness—and I know the way out.

 

I grew up in an affluent neighborhood in Orange County, California, the only child of two hardworking immigrant parents. From the outside, it may have looked like I had everything—privilege, opportunity, and a bright future. But on the inside, I felt like I never quite belonged. I was shy, introverted, and burdened by the cultural pressures to become someone I wasn’t. While others were destined for careers in medicine or law, I wrestled with my self-esteem, my body image, and the quiet but constant feeling that I just wasn’t enough.

 

In high school and college, I called myself a “studious party girl”—someone who appeared to have it all together but was quietly unraveling. What started as social drinking became something more dangerous. By the time I was in graduate school, alcohol had become a crutch—my way to cope with trauma, insecurity, and the weight of unmet expectations.

 

At 25, I was drinking a bottle of wine every night. By 28, I found myself alone, defeated, and ashamed, staring into a trash bin filled with 11 empty bottles after a weekend I couldn't even remember. No celebration. No company. Just me and the harsh realization that this wasn’t who I was meant to be. That moment was my turning point. I knew if I kept drinking, I wouldn't survive. And I knew deep in my soul that God had something greater planned for me.

 

I chose life. I chose clarity. I chose healing.

 

I sought help from my mother, my doctor, and eventually found deep restoration through yoga and meditation. These practices didn’t just support my recovery, they became the foundation of my transformation. I’ve now been sober since November 15, 2019, and today I stand as a woman with strong self-worth, a peaceful mind, a healthy body, and a life filled with love, purpose, and connection.

 

But more than anything—I stand ready to serve.

 

Since finding sobriety, I’ve helped others do the same. Friends, coworkers, and even strangers who thought they were alone—I’ve walked beside them as they rediscovered their strength, reclaimed their happiness, and reconnected with the beauty of who they truly are.

 

I became a sober guide because I’ve been there. I know the fear. I know the shame. I know the lies addiction tells. But I also know what’s possible when you have the right support, the right tools, and someone by your side who truly sees you.

 

If you—or someone you love—is ready to take that next step, I would be honored to walk with you. You don’t have to go through this alone. There is light at the end of the tunnel. And I’m here to help you find it.

 

Even if you are sober curious, I am here to support and encourage you.